Learning Objective: The purpose today is to examine what your behaviors costs you in your relationship with your finances, business and your own personal well-being. Examine each picture you have previously taken and "tell the truth" about your “hanging on attitudes” behind physical objects that you keep.
Telling the truth regarding physical objects you have in your space, reveals underlying beliefs about the item; as well as how this impacts your life.
Uncovering these beliefs leads to recognizing specific forms of behaviour that shape your circumstances in life.
Ex: You avoid things and put them off.
Outcome of Behaviour: You never get to it= Cease keeping your word.
Delay=Avoidance.
Cease keeping your word= Life out of balance. It is easy for others to break their agreements with you, as you do not value your own promises. The following is a set of scenarios that allows you to become aware of what this behaviour can cost you. Evaluate each and respond accordingly.
Scenario:
Friend arrives and you allow them to interrupt you completing your project. What cost is this to your business in terms of productivity and keeping on schedule?
Ex: Highly stressed as you attempt to reschedule.
Cost you see with your behavior:
What cost might occur for your well being?
Ex: You are angry over how you continue to give up your own needs to please others.
Costs from your behavior:
What does this cost you in your business? What does it cost you in relationships?
Ex: When you are not authentic with others, you lose respect for yourself which interferes with effective management.
Costs from your behavior:
What does this cost your business in terms of growth?
Ex: When distractions interrupt you, you lose track of time, which diminishes productivity and financial increase.
Cost from your behavior:
